A Love That Will Last

A Love That Will Last


On a certain day in a certain place ; A certain woman was looking at a face And suddenly, her life of uncertainty Became a memory.

For as she listened to him she knew Something unimaginable was coming true. In the instant that she feels it start She becomes aware of the beating of her heart . And a glow of warmth between her breasts Expands with the rhythm of her breath; Becoming a golden cord unseen By anyone but her in this waking dream.

Tentative at first, from her chest it starts then extends across space to touch his heart; And as it strengthens and continues to wind All around them it tightly binds Their destiny and their lives.

Because she knows with certainty The present is the future's past , And from this moment love will last...


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Do You Want To Be The Women Men Adore And Never Want To Leave

                                                
                                                                    
                                                                    
                                            
Do You Want To Be The Women Men Adore And Never Want To Leave

Many women dream of becoming the women men adore and never want to leave.  But just as many women go about it in the totally wrong way and end up losing one guy after another.  What is the secret?  I'll show you.

The first thing you have to do is totally change your way of thinking.  Our society has done a huge disservice to men and women by creating unrealistic expectations of what men and women should be.

For example, for most of your history women have been taught that men are overly sexual and that they really only want sex.  You've been led to believe that if a woman give her man enough sex he'll love you forever and never leave.  That is complete and utter nonsense!

Yes men like sex, but surprise, so do women! Women have just as high of a sex drive as men but the difference is our society has encouraged men to follow their sex drive while women have been taught that 'good girls' will wait until they're married.  The result?  Men judge their 'manliness' on the number of conquests they make and women are frustrated and angry that they are forced to put their needs on hold.

So if you want to keep your man happy you need to get over the idea that he needs sex all the time or that he needs it more than you.  Men and women really aren't that different in what they need and want from a relationship.  Two words can describe what they want: Connection and Support.

As humans we all need to feel connected to others.  If you can remember that and base your relationship on that fact you will have a great chance of making your man love you forever.

A connection can be made emotionally, spiritually, and sexually.  The more of these types of connections you and your man have the stronger your relationship will be.  If you want to keep him in love with you stay in a love-connected state with him.   Don't get sidetracked with negative petty issues; think out and weigh whats really important in the relationship for both of you. 

After all, you have to remember who you were when you met, he was attracted to that person so why would you change and become some boring, clingy, petty person now? 

The women men adore and never want to leave knows all of theses things.  She gives her man the connections and support he needs while keeping her own identity intact.  She doesn't put his needs above hers, but she lets him know that she is his biggest fan and loves and accepts him unconditionally.

A Good Man is a Confident Man

A Good Man is a Confident Man
A lot of women always seem to choose men that are not right for them. They end up dating a string of losers and never seem to know why they can't find a good man.  Ladies, you need to be consciously aware not only of what you are attracted to, but also what you find unacceptable, and you need to take immediate action when a man has those unacceptable traits.

What It Means:

Most women know what they are attracted to. You might be looking for a man who is tall, good-looking, financially successful, has a great sense of humor etc. One trait that triggers attraction in women is confidence.

A man may have all of the other traits that you are looking for, he may be tall, good-looking, and wealthy but if he is so rude, insensitive, and treats women poorly  you probably aren't going to end up dating him. On the other hand,a man that might be slightly less attractive but who is extremely confident will have no trouble coming up to you and starting a conversation, and before long you may be attracted to him.

Being attracted to confidence is that the men who could be considered as a " Good Guy" are viewed by the media as nerdy; but in reality are usually oozing with confidence. If you go out on a date with a man who tells you that he appreciates to be with you and he shows that he's enjoying your company. That in itself is a very good sign and can lead to another date with you.

 The guy who is appreciate, kind, and treats women with respect will have tons of confidence and also have a lot of women interested in him. Why? , because he displays maintaining, providing and protecting qualities aka: Relationship Commitment Material.

Bottom Line:

As a woman, it is in your DNA to be attracted to confidence. It's like a chemical reaction that goes on inside your brain. What you need to be able to do as a woman is to make a list not only of the traits that you find attractive, but also the traits that you find unacceptable. You may feel drawn to a man that is good-looking but you have to be able to make a conscious decision to dump a guy when he exhibits traits that are on your unacceptable list.

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We Have a Kid and I Want to Get Married and Stay Together - How Do I Make This Happen

We Have a Kid and I Want to Get Married and Stay Together - How Do I Make This Happen 



Thе twо оf уоu hаvе а child аnd оnе оf уоu dоеѕ nоt wаnt tо commit. Whаt іѕ thе reason fоr bоth оf уоu nоt ѕееіng eye tо eye? I'm ѕurе thе decisions thаt nееd tо bе mаdе іn raising thіѕ child hаvе caused а lot оf arguments. If so, аѕk yourself, аrе thеу rеаllу issues thаt can't bе worked out? Chances аrе уоur emotions аrе gеttіng іn thе wау оf compromising аnd finding solutions together. Aftеr all, bоth оf уоu аrе gоіng tо nееd tо work tоgеthеr fоr уоur child fоr а long time, ѕо whу nоt start now. Yоu knоw it's bеttеr оvеrаll fоr thе kid tо hаvе bоth parents gеt аlоng аnd ultimately stay together.

Rebuilding thе relationship wіth еасh оthеr іѕ thе fіrѕt step іn making thіѕ work іf уоu wаnt tо gеt married аnd stay together. Nоt јuѕt fоr thе child but fоr еасh оthеr too. Tаkе іt slow. Bе patient. Aѕk уоurѕеlf whаt brought уоu twо tоgеthеr іn thе fіrѕt place аnd gо frоm there. Mothers аrе еѕресіаllу emotional аbоut thеіr children ѕо іf уоu аrе а man reading this, thе bеѕt thіng уоu саn dо rіght nоw tо impress hеr іѕ pour уоur love аnd attention іntо thаt child. Yоu ѕhоuld bе dоіng thаt anyway, but naturally, а woman wіth а child wаntѕ а man thаt wіll аlwауѕ bе thеrе аnd provide fоr thаt child. That's а vеrу strong natural instinct іn а woman.

If уоu аrе а woman reading thіѕ аnd lооkіng tо kеер thе man уоu love аnd thе father оf уоur child, tаkе а step back. Trу nоt tо demand аnd nag. I knоw thіѕ sounds harsh bесаuѕе I'm ѕurе you're оnlу demanding bесаuѕе уоu wаnt уоur child tаkеn care of, but males run fast frоm nags nо matter whаt it's about. Males unfоrtunаtеlу ѕее thіѕ behavior аѕ hаvіng а mother telling thеm whаt tо dо rаthеr thаn а lover аnd partner. Yоu dо wаnt what's bеѕt fоr уоur child, ѕо maybe, thе bеѕt thіng tо dо rіght nоw іѕ tо lооk аt уоurѕеlf аnd ask, "would I stay wіth mуѕеlf acting thіѕ way?" mоѕt lіkеlу not.

Mауbе уоu hаd а child ѕо ѕооn thаt уоu rеаllу nеvеr hаd chance tо work оn уоur оwn relationship wіth еасh other. I wаnt tо tеll уоu it's nоt tоо late!

Remember, уоu аrе рrоbаblу hеrе bесаuѕе уоu wаnt what's bеѕt fоr уоur child аnd уоu ѕtіll love уоur significant other. Searching fоr а wау tо mаkе uр аnd stay tоgеthеr аlrеаdу shows уоu аrе tаkіng responsibility аnd genuinely care аnd wаnt tо mаkе іt right. Don't wait аnу longer. Thе time іѕ now! 

Why Won't He Commit

 Why Won't He Commit


You met and have been seeing this guy for a while now and things have been going great as far as you are concerned but sometimes you get the feeling that he just isn't seeing things the way you do. Now you are beginning to wonder why won't he commit to you like you want to to him?

The best way for you to find out if he is a commitment phoebe is to ask him straight out why won't he commit to you and your relationship.

When you do this, try not to be threatening or demanding, this will just make him want to turn and run. Sit him down with a cup of coffee and tell him you have felt for a while that something was just not right and ask if there is anything you could do to help.

He may see this as an opportunity to explore his feelings and realize a few things about himself or he may just see this as your way of butting into his business.

Either way, you will get your answer. Here are the five main answers to the question, "Why won't he commit?":

1. He still has feelings for his previous girlfriend - If he does, you are most likely his rebound girlfriend and rebound relationships rarely, if ever, work out for the best. You can usually tell pretty easily if this is the case if he can't stop talking about her, compares you to her, or has a picture of her still on display in his house.

2. He is playing the field - You may not be the only one he is dating and he is having too much fun to be exclusive.

3. He is afraid of being hurt - Bad break ups can sometimes leave deep scars and create a reluctance to enter into another long term relationship.

4. He has trust issues because his parents went through a nasty divorce - Yup, this can have a lasting effect on someone's idea of what marriage is or should be. This is his baggage and you may or may not be able to help him sort through it and get over it. Just know that it will be a long drawn out process to get him to trust you.

5. He doesn't consider you the woman of his dreams - He likes you well enough and enjoys spending time with you but you are just not his "one". This reason will definitely be the most hurtful to you so if you sit him down for a talk be prepared for the answers you might get.

If he even opens up to you at all.

I am sure there are more reasons why a man won't make that commitment in some relationships but these are the five most "popular" reasons.

You can keep wondering why won't he commit or you can make a choice. Get out of the relationship and move on to the next or just enjoy it for what it is for just right now.

How To Make A Man Adore You

 How To Make A Man Adore You


There is an old saying that goes "the heart wants what the heart wants", basically that means that you can't make someone fall in love with you. It is either there or it isn't. But is that true? Or is it possible to learn how to make a man adore you?

I think the truth probably lies somewhere in the middle. If your guy already cares about you a lot he may just need a little nudge to push him over the edge so he falls madly in love with you.
But if he just doesn't feel it's right there isn't much you can do and you probably shouldn't even try. If you try too hard you will be likely to push him further away and may end up looking foolish in the process. That is not what you want.

But if you want to learn how to give your guy that little nudge he needs and learn how to make a man adore you, I may be able to help.

I've done a little research and I have found some ideas on how you can accomplish just that, help your guy see the light and realize you are the one for him.

Here they are:

1. One of the things that is most important is for you to be you. There is no point in having him fall in love with a person who doesn't really exist. You want your guy to love you the same way you love him: unconditionally. Let him see your weird and quirky side too. I know that it can be scary letting this side of your personality show but when talking about real love it really is a kind of all or nothing.

If he falls in love with you but doesn't see the real you, he isn't really in love with you at all, is he?

2. Give him some space. No one likes someone who is needy and clingy. This is a turnoff to your guy just as much as it would be a turn off to you. If he wants a boys night out tell him and his friends to have fun. Don't call or text him all night or "accidentally" show up where they are.

You may use that as an opportunity to spend some time with your friends.  And if you feel like you can't trust him than there are problems in your relationship that need to be dealt with.

3. Sometimes women have a hard time finding the right balance between supportive and door mat. Learn how to find and maintain this balance and he will love you and more importantly, like you.

Most good men will be bored with a woman who is phony. Sure, your guy wants you to laugh at his dumb jokes but you don't have to go crazy either. A confidant guy will enjoy it if you give him a little, loving hard time when he does something silly. At times like that it is all about your tone though. If you come off really harsh it will hurt his feelings and cause problems.

But, if you are loving in the way you tease him he will laugh with you and it can actually bring you closer.

In short, treat your guy the way you want him to treat you. Be loving, honest, respectful and have just the right amount of independence so he sees you as his equal and not a needy or clingy pest.

That is how to make a man adore you. Have fun!

Do Women Like Alpha Males?



Do Women Like Alpha Males?


Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet. In astronomy, it is the brightest star in a constellation. In common parlance, alpha means to be the first.

Alpha males are guys who seem to be leading the pack, the hunter, the ever-reliable male good guy. They are all around us, in the ranks of burly blue collar workers to the impeccable corporate leaders. So why do women like alpha males; or do they?

Women do not only like alpha males; they adore them! Alpha males are the stuff that women's romantic imaginations are of. These are men who get women's attention wherever they go.

The attraction lies in the power seemingly possessed by alpha males. It's not really just about the money but it is about strength in character and the ability to be respected by his peers.

A woman defines an alpha male as someone who is vocal about what he wants and who does everything to get it. An alpha male is not cocky or loud, but there is a semblance of authority in his voice that seems to attract others, male or female. An alpha male is filled with confidence about his looks though he may not be handsome and is confident about his intelligence though he may not be a Wharton graduate.

In the animal kingdom the alpha males are those who lead the pack with an aggressive behavior. The animals have their own social structure where the alpha or the dominant males get to mate with the females, with the principle that the alpha males will most probably produce better offspring's. Same goes for the alpha males in the society of humans.

Women describe alpha males as those with an innate superiority and who literally leads the pack. These are males who are aggressive and assertive despite their limitations.

To be able to understand an alpha male, one has to get to know his characteristics such as but not limited to being:

Born leaders

Alpha males are born to lead the pack. They are known to be the peacemakers and the ones responsible for stopping fights after and aggression usually started off by a bully. These men are usually dignified men who have leadership capabilities and they sometimes rule their world. An alpha male is a no nonsense leader who cannot be dictated upon and who stands by his principles.

Gandhi is an alpha male. He is a charismatic leader who refused to be pressured into giving up his cause. He was able to win his battle by espousing non-violence. Microsoft Bill Gates is an example of an alpha male who continues to change the world and its people. There are many alpha males in a variety of settings, all of whom have provided inspiration and great leadership to their sectors. Most alpha males are attracted and married to strong and outstanding women.

Confident

Alpha males are so sure of themselves but not to point of being cocky. They have high self esteem, believing that they have the power to do anything they want and to achieve their dreams. They know they have that special something within them but they do not gloat nor talk about their strength.

Women are attracted to the alpha's because of the confidence that emanates from them. This confidence manifests itself in the way he carries himself and the way he deals with others. This confidence is shown in the way he does things and treats other people. The alpha male's high self esteem makes him confident that he can get the best woman in town. The truth is, women usually flock around him.

Assertive

Being confident of himself and in what he can achieve, the alpha male is always assertive but not to the point of being pushy. He knows what he wants and how to get it. He asserts his rights and the rights of his friends. This may be the reason why alpha males are so popular with the pack. He leads them and gives them protection. Women love the alpha male for being assertive, of being able to know he can do it and doing something to achieve what he wants to do.

Born leaders, confident and assertive. These are the qualities that make women swoon over the alpha male. Need I say more?

Get a Man To Marry You

 

 Get a Man To Marry You

 Using an ultimatum to get that sought after wedding ring is like committing relationship suicide. If you feel the need to present your boyfriend with an ultimatum concerning your relationship, it MUST be authentic!

 

What it means: When it comes to women who so badly want to be engaged to their boyfriend, ultimatums are a commonplace. The waiting game drives desperation (especially if she has been waiting for more than a year or two to get engaged) and desperation can lead to threats!

 

Yes, ultimatum is just a fancy word for "threat".  Women who throw marriage ultimatums at their boyfriends obviously don't realize that this kind of pressure and "all or nothing" attitude commonly results in the demise of the relationship.

 

When is an ultimatum acceptable?

 Only when you are ready to deal with the truth and act on the response! If you give your boyfriend a "now or never" lecture, you best be prepared to pack your bags and leave if he comes back with a "never" response. Staying in a relationship after he says "never" will only result in your losing all credibility and leverage in the relationship.

 

Bottom Line: Only give an ultimatum if you're ready to hear the truth and are willing to act on it, whatever the response may be. 

 

NOTE: Here's a much better way to get him to pop the question WITHOUT using threats and dangerous ultimatums."

Are Those Are You Really In Love Quizzes Really Accurate

Are Those Are You Really In Love Quizzes Really Accurate

Are you really in love? Quizzes can help you find out, but you have to make sure you take the right ones. Take one of those short little tests you find in popular magazines and you'll probably just end up even more confused than you were before. Before you make that mistake, here are some guidelines for finding a good quiz.

What the Quiz Can Tell You

Most of the time, it's hard to go wrong with trusting your gut instincts. For instance, if you feel like you're in danger, it's nearly always a good idea to get out of the situation even if there's no obvious sign of danger.

Well, the problem here is that both love and infatuation are such powerful emotions they cloud your ability to tell which is which (Yeah, like you really need me to tell you that). Sometimes, you just can't trust your instincts to lead you to a good relationship.

By asking questions that help separate feelings that could lead to deep, long-lasting love from those that will disappear. Are you really in love quizzes keep you from wasting energy on mere infatuation or lust. Even more importantly, they then help you from getting sucked into what could be a very unpleasant, messy romantic entanglement.

What the Quiz Should Ask You

If you actually want to get some real benefits from taking one of the are you really in love quizzes available, you need to know how to sort the accurate ones from the useless ones. Usually, just glancing through the questions will give you a good idea of how accurate the quiz will be. This is usually easy enough to tell by glancing at the questions. The quiz should be asking such things as whether you are willing to share your deepest secrets with this person or is he/she in the top 5 of the people you respect above all others.

It should also include questions that help you separate initial infatuation that could bloom into a deeper, true love from feelings that aren't likely to lead to anything serious. The test should ask how your love makes you feel about yourself, what emotions characterize your relationship, and how much you sacrifice for your partner. Questions like these zero in on common differences between love, infatuation, and lust.

Where to Find Quality Quizzes

As I mentioned above, popular magazines really aren't the best places to find quizzes. The problem is, unless the writer's bio is included, you can't be sure the person who created the quiz is a true expert on relationships or not. That's why it's better to look for quizzes in books and Web sites written by credible relationship experts.

Taking a few well designed quizzes can give you a lot of insight into whether or not your relationship has any real future. Finding out early on if your relationship is on the wrong track can save you a lot of stress and heartache in the long run. Just make sure you get your quiz from a credible source, be completely honest in your answers, and read the results of are you really in love quizzes with an open mind.

Why First Kisses Go Bad

 Why First Kisses Go Bad

If you have ever been on a first date, you have probably had an awful kiss moment.  This is one of the most
important things I have to teach men about because it’s mostly our fault.  But the truth is that women never really help us.

If a man takes you on a date there is a 90% chance he wants to kiss you.  He is only waiting and really just paying his taxes until you give him the sign that he has: spent enough money, told enough good stories, spent enough time with you.

What you need to know is that men cannot read your signals.

I know that it’s hard to believe but all of those subtle little signals you are sending out are only understandable to other women.  I have stood next to a student while a woman kept leaning in closer and closer to his mouth and he didn’t realize what was happening. 

She would close her eyes, tilt her head and lean in toward his mouth.  He wouldn’t react and she would rock back out.  I had to sneak up behind him and tell him that I would punch him in the kidney if he didn’t kiss her.

That might seem extreme but it was the only way that woman was ever going to get kissed.

The worst thing that can happen on a first date is the awkward front door moment.  I spend so much time teaching my male students how to avoid it, but it always amazes me how many women will actively create this socially awkward moment.
The earlier you kiss on a date the better.

Please have the courtesy to remove the elephant in the room.

He is only pretending to listen to your story about your sister’s new job.  All he’s thinking about is that moment.  Is she going to kiss me?  Is she not going to kiss me?  Am I wasting my time?

If you ever wonder why men don’t remember anything you say on a first date, that’s why. It’s a constant track running through the backs of their minds.

Is there a solution?

Of course there is!  I wouldn’t leave you hanging.  I am going to teach you a kissing technique that has been passed down from male dating coach to male dating coach for generations.  This is the first kissing move I ever tried, and it worked great.

Just say to him, “Do you want to kiss me?”

Now I know that sounds scary, but don’t worry.  There is an escape hatch.  Besides, don’t you want to know early on if you are with a guy who’s not interested?

There are only three possible answers: yes, no and maybe.

YES – “Then what are you waiting for?” and kiss.

NO – “Oh, you just looked like you were thinking about something.”

MAYBE, “Let’s find out,” and the ball is in his court.

By moving the kiss forward in the date you avoid creating an awkward situation that actually makes you no longer attracted to a man.  If you have that front door moment, there is just too much pressure.  It forces you to recall way too many movies and that’s something you really want to avoid.

So just get it out of the way so you can have a nice date.

Why Are Older Men Dating Younger Women

Why Are Older Men Dating Younger Women


Older men dating younger women are becoming a more popular phenomenon, especially in recent years. When an older significant other is with a younger one, this is commonly referred to as a May December romance, because there is a significant age difference between the woman and the man, or the man and the woman. While it appears much more common for younger men to date older women, older men dating younger women is also becoming a popular phenomenon, even though some will view it to be out of place.

Generally speaking, in situations of older men dating younger women, the younger woman is generally looking for something specific. It is a known fact that women can be attracted to older men for a number of reasons. This does not necessarily mean that an early twenties women will date a man of seventy five, but rather relative to their age, women are more than willing to date men who are a few years older than them, and this is how older men dating younger women comes into play.

In many cases, women are looking for their husband to be. The qualities that women are looking for in their future husbands are the same qualities that men slightly older than them are displaying. Most women are more than willing to admit that they are looking for a strong and confident man. Women are not necessarily looking for young and virile hunter gatherer types, but when it comes to older men dating younger women, the qualities that shine through usually begin with a man's ability to support a family, or provide for that family on a long term basis.

So usually in situations with older men dating younger women, the woman is looking for a man she can settle down with, regardless of whether or not this is what the man is looking for.

The traits that women are looking for in "husband material" are most commonly found in men aged eighteen and older, and as women age, they are still consistently looking for someone older, because it is assumed that older men are more civilized, more mature and more capable of providing for whoever they are with.

 This is the reason why older men dating younger women is becoming commonplace today. Women are constantly on the lookout for someone older and more mature, and most men seem to have no problem providing most of what these women are looking for, as they get to date younger as a result.

In these situations of older men dating younger women, the men are looking for something completely different, because some do select younger women as ideal wife material. Still, in these situations, both the man and the woman in the relationship seem to get the traits and characteristics that they need, and if the relationship works and everyone is satisfied, that's really all there is.

Relationship Commitment Get Him To Commit

Relationship Commitment Get Him To Commit


Relationship commitment Get Him To Commit. A lifelong goal for some men, and for others, a thought that puts shivers down their spine. While many would love to settle down and grow closer to a special woman over a period of years, the thrill of the chase is much more satisfying for everyone else. And these are the types that you want to stay clear of.

Growing up, meeting someone, and getting married is a natural progression for most of the male population. Albeit a dwindling past time now in the twenty first century. Marriage is becoming less popular while divorce rates increase periodically. Looking for Mr right, finding him, and settling down, and bring up a family is a fantastically rewarding experience for the MAN and the Woman. Get Him To Commit.

Meeting the right person is a must for this to be a lifelong enjoyable experience. Does he want the same things out of life, and will he be willing to go that extra mile to get them. Is he genuine in everything he says? Trust is a major factor in any relationship. When someone says “I love you”, they have to mean it. No relationship can be a long term happy affair if he doesn’t mean this when he says it, Get Him To Commit.

The relationship has to be based on a long term commitment, you just need the spark to be sustained throughout, Get Him To Commit. It has to stay as fresh as the first few weeks or months. If he shows signs of uncertainty then it has a chance of setting in, that’s when the relationship can break down.

 Keep the romance alive, continue to do the things that you did in the early days of your relationship. Leave little notes for him and listen closely as he speaks, get into his mind to understand. Get Him to Commit.

If problems occur they have to be discussed as soon as possible. Letting something brew for a period of time will only magnify it. The sooner a problem is talked about the more chance you have of getting it resolved, then the relationship can continue.

Relationship commitment is a journey that will have it’s ups and downs, and many rewards at the same time. Nothing can be more satisfying than raising a family, and growing old with a loving husband for most women. Get Him To Commit.

 This is something the thrill chasers will surely miss out on, either by never committing to anything, or giving up just when it starts to get serious. You must pay attention in order to know the signs. Which can save yourself so much time and energy, the goal is to Get Him To Commit.

How he decides if you're "THE ONE"??

How are ya?

 Dr. Paul, here.

Today...If you'll allow me?

I'd like to introduce you to a colleague
who can save you a lifetime of frustration
and heartache.

You may be familiar with him?

His name is TW Jackson, but he prefers
T Dub.

T Dub has helped save thousands of relationships
in over 67 countries around the world.

How can he help you?

By showing you that men need MORE than
love...if they are ever to see you as "the one".

What more can he possibly need than love?

==>T DUB explains here

If he doesn't FEEL these certain things...EVEN IF
he loves you...a LOT...

He'll NEVER see himself with you for the
long term...

...Listen it's NOT your fault.

==>Here's what's going on with him

I don't know for sure?

But this is likely the most important
lesson about men I could EVER share with you.

I say that because I've known women who've hung
on to a man for years...knowing he "loved her"...but
devastated when he ends the relationship...

If she would've simply understood how he chooses
his lifetime partner better...everything could have
been very different...and YEARS saved...

==>Here's how he chooses

Would you mind grabbing a piece of paper
and taking notes?

I truly believe this is THAT important to your
future....

Sincerely,
Dr. Paul Pharms, PhD.

PS Whether your in a relationship now or want
to be in one...this is how you make a man see you
as the "special woman" he wants to spend the
rest of his life with...

==>Watch This Now, You'll Be Happy You Did:-)

...LOVE is NOT enough. In fact, try too
hard to get him to "love" you and it will likely
BACKFIRE.

Get Him to Marry You Relationship advice You can't afford to miss.

 

Get Him to Marry You Relationship Advice You can't afford to miss.

Contrary to most conventional wisdom, it's not your looks, your money, your job or even your luck, that's going to land you that great relationship, and keep it sizzling. No, the secret is all in your attitude.

Here are my Six Essential Secrets For Get Him to Marry You Relationship Advice.

1. Stop competing with each other! Good relationships are all about being on the same side. What's the purpose in scoring all those points? Sure you may cross the finish line first today, and maybe tomorrow as well. But you'll be all alone when you do, and if you carry on this way, eventually you may not have anyone left in your life to compete with! So stop competing; stop player-hating; start concentrating on crossing that finish line as part of a winning team. Show him that you have his back and interests at heart, the goal is to Get Him to Marry You.

2. Listen, communicate and hear! One of my favorite parts of my great relationship period, is to sit and chat with my wife. We talk about big stuff, and small stuff; share plans and pains, and each of us engages with what the other is saying. We never use silence as a weapon, and we never go to bed mad. Master the simple art of real conversation and your Get Him to Marry You  relationship is halfway home!

3. Understand a relationship is not about "ownership. "This is probably the most common personal problem I come across. Possessiveness and jealousy are two of the most destructive of all human forces. Very few relationships will survive the poison of this twin-horned devil. Let it go, show him that your secure in yourself and the relationship Get Him to Marry You.

4. Pay yourself first every day! The most important relationship of all is the one you have with yourself! That means taking care of your body, mind and spirit every single day. It's simply called self-respect. I can guarantee you, that if you don't care for yourself, then few others will. Why should they? If you've already demonstrated your own low self-esteem, who am I, or anyone else, to argue with that? Take care of yourself first each day, in order to be strong enough to take care of the people you care about, Remember Get Him to Marry You .

5. Put the romance back! You just can't beat it. A romantic gesture says: "At this moment, I am thinking 100 percent of you, and your needs, and I want to do everything I can to please you." It also says a great deal about your own self-esteem. You'd be amazed how many people are motivated to make romantic gestures because of the praise they'll receive, not the pleasure they'll get. That isn't romance, its selfish. Learn to discern. Become a Master of Romance. It'll spice up your life and help to Get Him to Marry You.

6. Learn how to bend, but never so far that you snap.  Relationships are all about give and take. It's OK to bend with the wind sometimes. That's the nature of the dance. But it's not OK to bow over so far, so often, and so low, that you get worn down, weaken and snap. Learn how much to give, how much to take. The key is not to push, whine, plead or beg, but to make yourself so valuable and desirable in his eyes that he will want to spend all of the days of his life with you, causing to Get Him to Marry You.

Romance Tools and Romantic Ideas to Ignite Her Passion

Romance Tools and Romantic Ideas to Ignite Her Passion


Men, here are some romance items you should have available at all times to help you to be spontaneous and romantic.  Do you want to romance her, spark her libido and ignite her passion?  Then here are some romantic ideas and some romance supplies you should have:

Romantic Candles.  Get the kind of candles that come in their own glass jar with a lid.  They are safer than the tall candles, won't spill wax all over the place and when you put the lid on they go out without filling the room with smoke. Choose scented candles with mild scents like vanilla or melon - or your partner's favorite scent.

 Here's a romantic idea: light them all around the living room - at night, and just sit on the couch and talk with her, communication builds and strengthens intimacy.

Romantic "I love you" Cards.

 Get about 15 different "thinking of you" and "I love you" greeting cards.  Then - over the course of a few months, whenever you have the idea of leaving one in her purse or car or mailing one to her work, you can do it before you forget.  Just write a short personal note in each when you send it.

 Here's a romantic idea: send her a card a day for a week and then personally bring flowers to her at work at the end of the week as a romantic surprise.  She'll love it!

Romantic Bubble Bath.

 Get scented bubble bath for your partner - but don't give it to her - yet.  The cucumber and melon scents are really relaxing.

 Romantic idea:  make her a bath, use the romantic bubble bath and put some romantic candles (above) around the tub.  Then just leave and let her enjoy some peace (unless she asks you to join her). She'll melt with relaxation.

Romance Incense.  Incense can really make your home smell nice and create a relaxing atmosphere.  Some incense are really powerful.

A Blanket can be Romantic.

 Keep a blanket in your trunk.  That way, you can do spontaneous romantic excursions like stopping, laying on the blanket and looking at the stars on a clear night or just enjoy relaxing under a tree on a warm day.

Your Romantic Cell Phone.

 Yes - your cell phone can be romantic - just call her out of the blue just to say I'm very thankful for you and "I love you."

 Romance idea: send her loving text messages at random times in the week.

Try to do something small two or three times a week for her - such as a card or note or a call or e-mail.  Try to do something medium for her at least once a week - such as bring home flowers or make a nice dinner. And try to do something big for her at least once a month - such as a full evening without kids that includes a nice dinner, a bath and a massage - all truly from your heart with no obligations attached.  Mix it up - make nothing routine.

Every once in a while, go a week or two without doing anything romantic except calling or e-mailing to keep the romantic love connection flowing.  Then start romancing her again.  She'll appreciate it more that way - it won't be the same ol' thing.

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Create More Romance In Your Life

Create More Romance In Your Life


Ah, romance, that wonderful and exciting feeling, that most glorious intertwining of two hearts.  So intense, such a high, but so fleeting, and so often for so many once gone never to return.  But does it have to be that way?  Can we intentionally create and sustain more romance in our lives?

Most folks profess to want more romance in their lives. Indeed, for some, romance is a goal unto itself, or at least high on the list of goals for their love relationships.

But if having romance in our committed love relationships is a highly prized goal, and if so many people want more of it in their lives, how can we create, cultivate, and encourage it?  What concrete steps can we take to make sure that romance takes seed and flourishes?

The purpose of this article is to explore the idea that romance begins in your heart-center and grows outward, and is, to some significant degree, a reflection of how you feel about yourself.  In other words, by romancing yourself first you can create the conditions that allow you to experience and express romance with another more easily.

Listen: your capacity to love and accept yourself is the measure of your capacity to love and accept others. The same can be said for romance: your ability and willingness to create romance within is the measure of the romance you can help create in a committed loving relationship.

True romance isn’t just about flowers and poems.  Flowers and poems are great, of course, but are really just an extension of a feeling that comes from within, something that starts in, and flows from, the heart.  Without that heart-felt feeling, flowers and poems are but an attempt to be romantic, not an expression of true romance.

So how do you create more romance in your life?  Begin by romancing yourself.  Love, accept, and forgive yourself on a deep level.  Treat yourself with respect and understanding. Buy yourself flowers.  Write yourself a poem.  Treat yourself with respect and dignity. And remember: if you don’t love yourself first, you can’t truly love another.

And remember that it is far more important to be the right person than to find the right person.  Our relationships are a reflection of the relationship we have with ourselves. Romance, too, is a reflection of that inner state.  By first creating romance within, you’ll be well on your way to creating more romance in your life.

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Becoming The Woman that a Man will Adore: pt.2

Becoming The Woman that a Man will Adore: pt.2

A lot of the problems women have in their relationships stem from a lack of understanding, in other words they have no idea why men act the way they do. In fact, they often don’t know why they act the way they do so it’s no surprise women have trouble deciphering their responses.

What many women don’t seem to understand is that men are completely different. They process information differently, they relate to one another differently, they express themselves differently. However, a woman who understands these differences will become a Priceless Gem that a Man will Adore.

In fact, it is these exact differences between men and women that spark Passion and Love because without it, both men and women would be lost. Yes, it is quite possible to understand men and it is probably easier for women to understand them than the other way around.First of all, you need to understand that men are primarily driven by Success and Accomplishment. They value tangible results, efficiency and power and everything they do is geared towards proving themselves.

Men won’t sit around and talk about their feelings, instead they prefer to engage in Competitive Activities where they can Win. It gives them the chance to show off their superiority over other males; which is all testosterone induce, but that's another story. You won’t find many men reading the latest issue of People or Cosmo but instead he will read the sports section of the paper or the news. He cares little about romance novels because he is more interested in things rather than feelings.

And he likes things that help him express Power, whether a fancy sports car or the latest gadgets and gizmos. Men are goal Driven and they feel good about themselves when they manage to Achieve their goals because they prove that they are Worthy and Competent. If they do so on their own then that is an even greater testament to their Power and Strength. Because men are hardwired to solve their problems on their own they rarely talk about them.

When they do, it means they need advice and help.If women can understand this side of men, then they will understand why men hate being corrected or advised without asking for it. It makes them feel incompetent and they feel that you don’t trust them to solve the problem.This is also why men tend to offer solutions when women talk to them about their problems. It is because if another man were to share his problems, it is an unspoken request for help so he feels honored to provide a solution.

When he provides a Solution for the woman he Loves, it is an expression of his Love but when a woman gets upset because she perceives that he isn’t listening or emphasizing he has no idea what he did to upset her. The result is that he withdraws and basically blocks her out. Men also deal with stress differently than women do. A woman will talk about all her problems with her friends, who will instinctively know that she needs a little support and understanding so they empathize.

On the other hand, men tend to withdraw and focus on a different activity so that they can regroup on their problems while still thinking to find a solution to solve their problem. Unfortunately, most women think that he doesn’t care about her or is ignoring her because he isn’t talking about his problems with her when it’s simply a matter of how men deal with stress differently than women.

You have to accept the fact that it is unrealistic to expect a man to open up immediately to you when he is stressed just as it is unrealistic for a man to expect you to calm down and be rational and logical all the time. You need to understand that if he withdraws to watch football or read the newspaper, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t Love You, it simply means he is very stressed. You need to learn not to take it Personally and to give him a little Space, ( not too much )

Also, if you ask for his attention in a calm and relaxed manner you will find he will be much more responsive than if you start the blame game.        To be continued :)