Restoring Trust in Relationships Getting Your Ex Back After an Affair

Restoring Trust in Relationships Getting Your Ex Back After an Affair

How do you get your ex back even after you've cheated? Some people claim that an affair should always end a relationship. But I disagree. I believe that every relationship is savable if both parties really want to work on it.This article is about restoring Trust in Relationships.

Restoring trust in relationships requires an adjustment in attitude and actions. Even after an affair, it is possible to save a relationship. But that starts with ramping up the level of Trust within the couple. If you have had an affair, you have had an attitude which allowed you to stray. There may be something at the relationships core that is diseased. But you can heal the disease.

What was it that you were looking for when you strayed? Was the sex humdrum? Was she too busy for you? Was she just not spending enough time on her grooming? You wouldn't have had an affair if the primary relationship was Excellent. So, what needs to be done to fix it? Often that lies in self analysis. But just as often, that lies in the couples relationship. Restoring Trust in relationships means fixing the underlying problems.

Sometimes that means going into couples counseling. But just understanding our thoughts isn't enough. The next step is to take concrete action in fixing the problems. The secret to restoring Trust in relationships lies not in talking about the right things, but in doing the right things:) One of the biggest things you can do is to make small promises and keep them. If you promise to take the trash out every evening, do it. And, do it consistently.

When you demonstrate that you can be trusted in the small things, a gradual sense of confidence will be realized in the larger picture of the relationship. Your girlfriend or wife is going to need Constant Reassurance that you have changed. This means that you are going to need to Apologize more than once over time. You will also need to treat the recurring comments about the violation of trust as a matter of course. It is not easy for her to forgive the breach.

If you want to stay with her, you will have to be patient with her and help her get through this. This does not mean that you must feel guilty about the indiscretion forever. In fact, if you allow her to constantly guilt trip you, she will not be satisfied in the new relationship you are building. Just be understanding and understand some more.

This event can be an opportunity for both of you to grow as individuals and for the relationship to mature. Just as a bone grows stronger at the place it has been broken, a relationship can improve after an affair. Restoring Trust in a relationship takes time.It requires that you change both your Attitudes and Actions. But it is possible to Heal the divide and be a Stronger couple as a result.

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Becoming The Woman that a Man will Adore: pt.2

Becoming The Woman that a Man will Adore: pt.2

A lot of the problems women have in their relationships stem from a lack of understanding, in other words they have no idea why men act the way they do. In fact, they often don’t know why they act the way they do so it’s no surprise women have trouble deciphering their responses.

What many women don’t seem to understand is that men are completely different. They process information differently, they relate to one another differently, they express themselves differently. However, a woman who understands these differences will become a Priceless Gem that a Man will Adore.

In fact, it is these exact differences between men and women that spark Passion and Love because without it, both men and women would be lost. Yes, it is quite possible to understand men and it is probably easier for women to understand them than the other way around.First of all, you need to understand that men are primarily driven by Success and Accomplishment. They value tangible results, efficiency and power and everything they do is geared towards proving themselves.

Men won’t sit around and talk about their feelings, instead they prefer to engage in Competitive Activities where they can Win. It gives them the chance to show off their superiority over other males; which is all testosterone induce, but that's another story. You won’t find many men reading the latest issue of People or Cosmo but instead he will read the sports section of the paper or the news. He cares little about romance novels because he is more interested in things rather than feelings.

And he likes things that help him express Power, whether a fancy sports car or the latest gadgets and gizmos. Men are goal Driven and they feel good about themselves when they manage to Achieve their goals because they prove that they are Worthy and Competent. If they do so on their own then that is an even greater testament to their Power and Strength. Because men are hardwired to solve their problems on their own they rarely talk about them.

When they do, it means they need advice and help.If women can understand this side of men, then they will understand why men hate being corrected or advised without asking for it. It makes them feel incompetent and they feel that you don’t trust them to solve the problem.This is also why men tend to offer solutions when women talk to them about their problems. It is because if another man were to share his problems, it is an unspoken request for help so he feels honored to provide a solution.

When he provides a Solution for the woman he Loves, it is an expression of his Love but when a woman gets upset because she perceives that he isn’t listening or emphasizing he has no idea what he did to upset her. The result is that he withdraws and basically blocks her out. Men also deal with stress differently than women do. A woman will talk about all her problems with her friends, who will instinctively know that she needs a little support and understanding so they empathize.

On the other hand, men tend to withdraw and focus on a different activity so that they can regroup on their problems while still thinking to find a solution to solve their problem. Unfortunately, most women think that he doesn’t care about her or is ignoring her because he isn’t talking about his problems with her when it’s simply a matter of how men deal with stress differently than women.

You have to accept the fact that it is unrealistic to expect a man to open up immediately to you when he is stressed just as it is unrealistic for a man to expect you to calm down and be rational and logical all the time. You need to understand that if he withdraws to watch football or read the newspaper, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t Love You, it simply means he is very stressed. You need to learn not to take it Personally and to give him a little Space, ( not too much )

Also, if you ask for his attention in a calm and relaxed manner you will find he will be much more responsive than if you start the blame game.        To be continued :)

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Becoming The Woman that a Man will Adore

Becoming The Woman that a Man will Adore:


If you asked most women today what type of woman men adore and couldn’t live without they would answer that she would have to be an Angelina Jolie or Beyonce lookalike.

While this type of woman would definitely attract a lot of attention, she actually isn’t the type of woman that men adore. You see, while men are visual creatures and that first Attraction is sparked from looks, you would be surprised to find out how much more men actually want from women:)

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You would never guess what the result was. No, it wasn’t her breasts, her legs or her behind. In fact, it wasn’t any body part below her chin and it wasn’t her features, either.

It was her smile ( TA-DA ). The majority of men stated that they found nothing as Attractive as a Woman’s Smile:)

The point of this revelation is that you have to put your preconceived notions and the rules society has beaten into you all to one side.

You need to understand that fundamentally, men and women are different .And once you allow your inner Great woman to shine through, then you will become the woman that a Man will Adore and can’t live without:)

To be continued :)

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