Defining men’s relationship angle

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Defining men’s relationship angle

Information that would help women perceive men’s reactions in a better fashion

March 22, 2013-  Understanding the opposite sex has always been a topic for extensive debate.  While each one has a different perspective about various aspects in life, it is obvious that there needs to be a bridge of consensus in order to maintain a peaceful life.  

Dr. Paul Pharms, PhD, a renowned relationship consultant and a specialist in enabling people through self-empowerment has created two very helpful videos that would provide all the answers to the most pertinent questions a woman would have about men in general.  Often women find it challenging to comprehend men’s actions when it comes to maintaining a relationship.  The numerous books and educational material on men’s behavior doesn’t provide answers to these questions either.  This would lead to a belief which would be hard to alter and in turn would hamper the relation to a great extent.

The videos that are created by Dr. Pharms are focused on providing an insight into men’s thought process when it comes to handling a relationship.  Certainly there are differences however with love and understanding people would become more accepting of the differences.  Only when the actual thought process is understood one would be able to react in the desired manner.  This is the sole aim of the videos and the end result would be bridge some of the gaps that occur through the changes in reaction and work it out for bettering the relationship.

Having worked as a relationship consultant Dr. Pharms brings forward the common scenarios with solutions that would help every man and woman respond well to their partners.  The gender differences are bound to hinder the thinking and when it comes to two different mindsets living together a lot of disagreements do happen.  The true meaning of relationship is to bring the differences to a platform where they can be worked out collectively for a positive outcome.

  These videos are a perfect guide for those who wish to embark on a new relationship or work on a broken relationship.  It also provides a few insights that can help those in a relationship and often have questions about the differences that arise.  For viewing the videos visit http://resilientinvestor.blogspot.in/ .  Dr. Pharms has listed many articles in his blog that have helped many couples come together and stay united for long.  Visit the site mentioned above to contact Dr. Pharms for any other additional relationship advice.

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5 Tips For When Your Ex Wants To Get Back Together

                                                                    
                                                                   
                                                                   
                                           
5 Tips For When Your Ex Wants To Get Back Together



Some people end their relationship with a clean break. Both parties agree that they should not be together. Others will simply end the relationship on their terms. While they are done with the relationship, the other person will still want to stay together. This relationship can be difficult, as the person who ended the relationship must deal with the ex who wanted to stay together. There will come a time when your ex wants to get back together. Instead of making an irrational decision, follow these 5 tips. These tips will help you to make the best decision.

Consider Your First Relationship

If your ex wants to get together again, you need to consider the relationship that you had. Why did you break up in the first place? You need to consider the end of your first relationship before you consider another one. If the issue is something that cannot be repaired, you should not even bother with a reconciliation attempt.

Consider Your Life Now

You need to make sure that you consider your life now when considering getting back together with an ex. You may be willing to give it a shot, but do you have the time? Are you in a place in your life where you can handle a full relationship? The answers to these questions will help you in your final decision making process.

Be Patient and Kind

It is important for you to be patient and kind to your ex. They are dealing with a lot of emotions. You want to make sure that you do not make these emotions stronger. Be patient with them and listen to what they have to say. This conversation may be useful to you, as it may help you to make up your mind.

Talk To your Friends

Talk to your friends about the situation. Talk to them about how your ex feels, how you feel, and all of the different factors that will affect your decision. It will be good for you to say these things out loud to someone, as it can be helpful to talk it through with someone.

Make the Decision On Your Own

In the end, you need to make sure that you are making the decision on your own. You should not make this decision based on your ex, or on your friends. Take yourself and your own feelings into consideration. This should be the basis for your final decision.

You need to make sure that you are looking out for yourself. While you should take the words of your ex and your friends into consideration, you need to make the decision on your own. Think about what is best for you when your ex wants to get back together. When you think about your best interests, you will always make the right decision.

First Step Toward A Second Chance

                                                                     
                                                                    
                                                                    

                                            
 

First Step Toward A Second Chance

The first thing you need to do if you've lost the love of your life is communicate – with yourself. You need to get clear in your own head on what is really going on by ignoring all the noise. Forget the arguments, forget the fights and just get to the heart of the matter.

You'll have to be brutally honest with yourself here because what you're searching for is the truth. You want to dig past the clutter and the excuses and pinpoint the true reason or reasons your relationship began to go south.

Don't gloss over the little things, because often it is simply a combination of so many little things piled one on top of the other with no one ever going back to apologize and make things right that add up to one seemingly unmovable Big Thing.

Many times these small mountains of little things, too long ignored, make a relationship start to sour. If they keep adding up, things go bad a lot faster. So really think about the life of your relationship, and be honest with yourself about what really happened. What were the core events or words that put a hitch in the smooth turn of the wheel?

Once you've pinpointed all the things you feel are the likely culprits for pushing your relationship to take a turn for the worst, your next step is to communicate with your ex. Let him or her know that you want to sort out all the problems, get them out in the open and talk about them so you can figure out, together, what went wrong in your relationship because you never want to repeat these mistakes again.

Here's a valuable hint to remember during these communications: Discuss does not mean argue. If you can't act like a mature, responsible adult for the duration of a simple, single conversation to help make your relationship better now, how can you possibly expect to have a meaningful, long-term relationship?

So the next step is to find out what he or she thinks started the damage to your relationship. The point is for each of you to know what the other feels caused the relationship to go bad so you both will know exactly what needs working on – by both parties – to fix the relationship.

Next, ask if your partner feels your relationship has a chance, if they are interested (like you) in trying to change things for the better, working together to build a better life together, and then decide if you're both willing and able to do what you now know it will take to make the necessary changes and put the relationship back on track.

Communication is one of the cornerstones of all meaningful relationships. If you haven't been communicating with your partner, that could be one part of the problem. Make sure he or she knows you now understand this and that from here on out, you will definitely want to discuss your problems with each other, as well as possible solutions.

Why? Because by doing this, by communicating openly and honestly with each other about your hopes, fears, expectations and whatnot, both of you will be better equipped to make your relationship much better than it has ever been, to make your relationship the kind that lasts forever.