How To Make A Man Adore You

 How To Make A Man Adore You


There is an old saying that goes "the heart wants what the heart wants", basically that means that you can't make someone fall in love with you. It is either there or it isn't. But is that true? Or is it possible to learn how to make a man adore you?

I think the truth probably lies somewhere in the middle. If your guy already cares about you a lot he may just need a little nudge to push him over the edge so he falls madly in love with you.
But if he just doesn't feel it's right there isn't much you can do and you probably shouldn't even try. If you try too hard you will be likely to push him further away and may end up looking foolish in the process. That is not what you want.

But if you want to learn how to give your guy that little nudge he needs and learn how to make a man adore you, I may be able to help.

I've done a little research and I have found some ideas on how you can accomplish just that, help your guy see the light and realize you are the one for him.

Here they are:

1. One of the things that is most important is for you to be you. There is no point in having him fall in love with a person who doesn't really exist. You want your guy to love you the same way you love him: unconditionally. Let him see your weird and quirky side too. I know that it can be scary letting this side of your personality show but when talking about real love it really is a kind of all or nothing.

If he falls in love with you but doesn't see the real you, he isn't really in love with you at all, is he?

2. Give him some space. No one likes someone who is needy and clingy. This is a turnoff to your guy just as much as it would be a turn off to you. If he wants a boys night out tell him and his friends to have fun. Don't call or text him all night or "accidentally" show up where they are.

You may use that as an opportunity to spend some time with your friends.  And if you feel like you can't trust him than there are problems in your relationship that need to be dealt with.

3. Sometimes women have a hard time finding the right balance between supportive and door mat. Learn how to find and maintain this balance and he will love you and more importantly, like you.

Most good men will be bored with a woman who is phony. Sure, your guy wants you to laugh at his dumb jokes but you don't have to go crazy either. A confidant guy will enjoy it if you give him a little, loving hard time when he does something silly. At times like that it is all about your tone though. If you come off really harsh it will hurt his feelings and cause problems.

But, if you are loving in the way you tease him he will laugh with you and it can actually bring you closer.

In short, treat your guy the way you want him to treat you. Be loving, honest, respectful and have just the right amount of independence so he sees you as his equal and not a needy or clingy pest.

That is how to make a man adore you. Have fun!