How To Be An Amazing Girlfriend Without Being Wonder Woman

How To Be An Amazing Girlfriend Without Being Wonder Woman


The good news is that it is fairly simple to answer how to be an amazing girlfriend. You just need to know certain tricks and soon he will love the ground you walk on.

Often when women get involved with a man, they start to become comfortable.  They stop dressing as well as they once did and leave waxing and other grooming a little bit longer than we should.  This is the first step to being amazing. You never want him to see you looking anything other than your best.  Yes ladies this means that the fluffy nightwear stays firmly in the closest and the sexy black negligee is neatly folded under the pillow :)

This brings us to the next step. You have to have a very active and interesting sex life in order to gain the amazing girlfriend award.  Seriously now is the time to be reading Karma Sutra cover to cover and putting some of the easier moves into practice.  Men love a great time in bed but they like it even better when they turn their partner on so if he does make it obvious. Yes think the dinner scene from when Harry met Sally!  Initiate sex and be open to trying different techniques and positions.  Obviously you shouldn't do anything you are uncomfortable with but forget the missionary position every night. That's predictable and boring and doesn't merit the description of amazing.

Let your man out with his friends and don't call or text to find out where he is or who he is with. Men hate clingy insecure women. They don't mind you being a little jealous if some other female flirts with him but they expect you to trust them when they are on a night out.

If you want to be a permanent fixture in your man's life, you need to treat his family and friends with respect. Sure they may not be the people you would chose to socialize with.  I am guessing if you were honest, some of your own family wouldn't meet this criteria either.   Your man's family will be important to him. In fact you should have already checked how he treats his mom as that is a good indication of how he will treat you in years to come.

It may be easy to answer the question how to be an amazing girlfriend but I am not saying that it will always be easy to put it into practice. But if you master at least some of these techniques you have more chance of moving onto the next step in your relationship.  If you think that this is all too much effort, you may just find that your man has plenty of other female friends just waiting for the chance to prove they have what it takes to be an amazing girlfriend.

If you love this man and want to be walking down the street holding hands when you are in your twilight years, you need to take action now. Go on - what have you got to lose?

I Want My Ex Back Now

 
 I Want My Ex Back Now




I want my ex back now is a common refrain and one that is thankfully easily remedied.  Most of us have broken up at some point with our partners over something very silly. Perhaps we lost our temper or we got into a silly argument and now regret it.  Thankfully these types of breakups are easy to rectify.

But perhaps you have broken up over something more serious.  Perhaps one of you were unfaithful or lied to your partner? These are bigger problems to overcome but they are not necessarily the end of the road. If both of you are happy to make an effort to reconcile, you can get over almost any obstacle.   You may need some professional help from a third party.  This may take the form of relationship counseling either as a couple or separately.  There are many great articles within my blog on this subject which can be very helpful at putting things into perspective.

The first thing you should do is to arrange a meeting in a public place. If you meet in private you could let your emotions take over and either end up having a huge argument or in bed making love.  Of course the second option might be enjoyable but it will not necessarily sort out getting your ex back.

Meeting to discuss your relationship is a chance for you both to air your grievances. This is not a blame game and if you have the idea that you are going to make your ex partner pay for their behavior then do yourself a favor and walk away now.  What you want to do is acknowledge that you two have some issues to work through but you want the relationship to work and would like to give it another go.

Having any sort of  marriage/ partnership with someone takes work and commitment.  We are very different in how we think about things and how we communicate.  Sometimes we can blow issues out of all proportion and either our pride or our tempers prevent us from discussing our problems like adults and we behave like kids.

If you want your ex back, you will need to convince them that you have something special and worth fighting for.  Be prepared for some reservations depending on the original reasons for breaking up.  Don't try to make them take you back by making them jealous or playing any other types of games. Games belong in the school yard.  Make an effort to look your best. It helps if you wear an outfit that you know your partner likes and finds attractive.  Use their favorite scent and cologne as well.

Keep the conversation civil and talk about the great times you have shared and your dreams for the future. It may take a while and more than one meeting but in time you may be back together and no longer saying I want ex back now!

5 Ways To Be Romantic After A Break Up

                                                                   
                                                                    
                                                             
                                 
 5 Ways To Be Romantic After A Break Up

So you've broken up with the person you love and you want them back. But how can you be romantic with someone after you've broken up with them? That doesn't exactly provide you with opportunities for romance when you're not dating or seeing each other at all.

It can certainly be a challenge, but here are 5 ways to be romantic after a break up that can help you express your feelings. These ideas not only offer the opportunity for romance, but they'll make your ex feel special which is one of the most important things you can do when you want to get back together.

It's important to remember, however, that you need to respect your ex's wishes. If you're calling and stopping by and they want you to stop, you need to stop. But that doesn't mean you can't make a romantic gesture.

But your gesture will be better received if you don't do it immediately. Stop bothering your ex and begging them back. Give them some space without you. After some time has passed, then make one of these romantic gestures which will surprise them and remind them of you.

Tip one: send flowers. Don't do this immediately after you give your ex what they want by contacting them less. Wait a little while then send a bouquet of their favorite flowers and have them delivered. Don't have them delivered when they're at work or in front of many other people. Have them delivered at home instead.

And don't write wishes of getting back together or love on the card that's attached. Include a message that says something as simple as I hope you're doing well, or hope you're okay.

Tip two: focus on them. Wait a while and then call or stop by when it feels like it would be okay to do so. But don't talk about yourself or what you want. Ask if they need anything or if there's anything that you can help them with. Do this without the pressure of anything in return.

Tip three: do something very thoughtful. After some time has passed, send them a thoughtful card or gift that's obviously just for them. If they have exams coming up or a tough project at work, send a card of encouragement about it without mentioning yourself. For a birthday or any type of occasion, instead of the fancy gift, wash their car or give them something practical to show that you care.

Tip four: make a romantic gesture that doesn't necessarily include you. Surprise them with two tickets to a movie or play designed for them to take someone else. They might just ask you now that the pressure's off.

Tip five: give up something you know they want. Whether it was a CD or anything that belongs to you that you can replace, offer it to them in goodwill. These 5 ways to be romantic after a break up can help your efforts to get back together and make you both feel good.