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Showing posts with label How to treat your woman right.. Show all posts
Showing posts with label How to treat your woman right.. Show all posts

Friday, February 1, 2013

Why Women Leave Men


                                                                    
                                                                   
                                                                 
                                       
Why Women Leave Men

If you are worried that your wife or partner is about to leave you, or has already left you, you may want an answer to the question:"why women leave men?"  The truth of the matter is that it's probably not what you think, and there can be several reasons.

In any long term relationship things pile up.  Little frustrations, hurts, insensitive remarks can all add up over a period of time and each little thing is like a brick in a wall.  After a while you will have one very big wall.  That's the point where one party will throw their hands up and say 'Enough!" and leave.  The important thing is to make sure your relationship never gets to that point.

One thing you have to do is un-learn much of what you've been told about women and what they want.  If you think women are needy, and high maintenance you need to re-evaluate your thinking (of course some women are that way, but not most of them).  While this may sound stupid here is something you should try: stop thinking of your woman as a woman, instead think of her as a person.  Treat her the same way you like people to treat you.

One of the biggest mistakes men make is they either treat their woman like a whore, a surrogate mommy, or they go to the complete opposite side of the spectrum and put her on a pedestal where they treat her like she's made of porcelain.  The best thing to do is treat her like a human being: a unique individual that has her own mind, needs, and wants. Get to know the real woman, not the person you want her to be, or think she should be.

Don't lump all women together.  Don't assume your wife or partner likes a certain thing or should act a certain way just because some other woman (or your mom) does.  More than likely you have several male friends.  Do you treat each one of them the exact same way, or do you modify your behavior (slightly) for each unique relationship you have?

Women leave men because they are unsatisfied in one way or another.  Each relationship is different but at the end of the day your wife or partner will leave because she is not getting enough of her needs met, it's as simple as that.

Most women want their husband or partner to be a friend and confidant.  They want someone who acts like they actually like them.  Many men don't act like they even like their women and they certainly don't treat them like a trusted friend.

Women have sexual needs just like men.  Our society has done a huge disservice to men and women because it tells men they have this huge sex drive and that it's OK to pick up women whenever they want to and that women have to be 'good girls' and take it on the chin, all the time.

The fact of the matter is that its not true. Women have the same sex drive as men, they are just conditioned to not act on it whenever the whim hits them.  What women don't want is to think that their man only wants them for sex.  Women will often disconnect from their men physically because even though they like sex they also like non-sexual physical contact and many men think they have to turn every incident of physical contact into a sexual encounter.  After a while your woman won't even want you to touch her, and she'll find someone else.

So if you want to avoid having your wife or partner leave and you want to  answer the question: "why women leave men?" just follow some of these simple tips and treat your women like someone who you like and love and your relationship should last a long time.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Are You Romatically Hot?





Fanning the Flames: Being Romantically Hot

  Men, to get some spice and romance back in your life, you’ll want to do something new and different. You don’t have to START with things that seem foreign to you. If you have never done anything more romantic than slap your spouse on the behind, it may be a bit of a stretch for you to pull off a lavender scented bath for two with rose petals floating on the water. The key to romance for YOUR relationship is to do things you know YOUR partner will like.

 By asking your partner questions, you will find out who they are TODAY, and not have to depend on 20-year-old conversations you had during your first date. Remember, a big part of romance is knowing what makes the other person tick and showing how much you care by doing something THEY will like.

No need for special occasions here, just a lot of things you can do to remind your partner that you love them EVERY DAY. Try some of these ideas to get you started and to get you more comfortable with your romantic side. And remember to pick the things you feel will best suit YOU and YOUR PARTNER. Its never about one, its always about the two. You and Your partner :)

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